Thursday, February 20, 2025

Book review: My Date with a Book Nerd, by Cassie James

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Every now and then, you come across a book that feels like a warm hug—fun, engaging, and packed with characters you can’t help but fall in love with. My Date with a Book Nerd by Cassie James is exactly that. With its fake dating gone wrong (or right?), witty banter, and just the right amount of spice, this book delivers everything I love in a rom-com while also exploring themes of self-growth, friendship, and family.

From the Gilmore Girls-esque mother-daughter relationship to an introverted book-loving love interest (swoon), this story checks all the right boxes. And while some plot points felt a little shaky, the emotional journey of Annie and Miles kept me hooked from start to finish.



I absolutely loved this book! It’s funny, adorable, and has just the right amount of spice to keep things interesting without overshadowing the plot. The characters are fantastic, and the banter? Chef’s kiss!

The dynamic between Annie and her mom gave me serious Gilmore Girls vibes—witty, heartfelt, and always on point. Annie is an endearing, nerdy protagonist who struggles with social interactions, especially when people don’t show her the respect she deserves. But by the end, she finds her backbone and stands up for herself in a way that’s so satisfying to watch.

And Miles? He’s officially my new favorite book boyfriend. A book lover and a published author? Yes, please! Especially when he wants to buy you books—who could resist?

I adored the way their relationship developed, from fake dating to something real. Cassie James does an incredible job of making their connection feel organic, nailing the pacing and emotional depth. The dual POV was a great touch, offering insight into both characters’ perspectives and perfectly capturing the confusion of falling for someone when you’re still figuring out your own feelings.

A special shoutout to the depiction of introverted friendships, especially between young women. Annie’s best friend is always there when she needs her, without being overbearing—a subtle but great reflection of Annie’s character.

The enemies to lovers trope is handled really well, balanced with just the right amount of miscommunication to keep things realistic without feeling frustrating. The family drama wasn’t my favorite part, but it added depth without distracting from the romance.

If you’re a fan of enemies to lovers, fake dating, and grumpy/sunshine dynamics, this book is definitely for you. It’s got humor, heart, and just the right amount of drama to keep you turning the pages. Perfect for a cozy weekend read—especially if you love swoon-worthy book boyfriends who will buy you books. 😉

Want to know more? Keep reading for a deeper dive into the plot, characters, and all the juicy details—but beware, spoilers ahead!


One of the things I really appreciated about this book was the depth given to each character’s backstory. Annie, a nerdy girl with an extremely extroverted mother, Hannah, is facing tough times. They’re living in a motel while Hannah prepares for a job interview. Their mother-daughter dynamic sometimes feels reversed, with Annie being the responsible one while Hannah seems more carefree. But when it truly matters, Hannah steps up, showing she will always protect her daughter.

We first meet Miles through his POV—he’s a sharp, intelligent guy from a wealthy but emotionally distant family. His uncle, Luca, plays a major role in his life, offering both financial and emotional support. Miles immediately comes across as sarcastic, using his wit as a shield to keep people at arm’s length.

Luca quickly becomes an important side character—first as Hannah’s employer, then as a protector for both Hannah and Annie, and finally as Hannah’s love interest.

When Annie and Miles meet, sparks fly—but not in the usual way. Miles is immediately suspicious of her, assuming she has some hidden agenda. Instead of asking questions, he jumps to conclusions—classic introvert miscommunication. Meanwhile, Annie is dealing with academic struggles for the first time in her life, as well as a crumbling relationship. Her boyfriend is jealous yet only pays attention to her when it’s convenient for him. Their breakup is more about his ego than any real feelings for her. The contrast between him and Miles is stark—when an argument erupts, Miles instinctively takes Annie’s side without hesitation.

This is a crucial turning point: for the first time, Miles sees Annie as someone worth protecting. That first unexpected kiss? A clear sign that his heart and brain are at war, setting the stage for their emotional journey.


Fake Dating & Forced Proximity

The fake dating setup makes sense given their circumstances, though it’s definitely a bit unconventional. Miles wants to avoid an overly persistent pursuer—a woman who, to make things even messier, happens to be his father’s ex-wife. (Yes, yikes.) Annie, on the other hand, is looking for a way to finally put an end to her frustrating relationship with her ex. Fake dating Miles gives her a perfect excuse to close that chapter of her life for good.

While their reasoning for the arrangement is somewhat flimsy, it actually reflects their emotional state—both are drawn to each other but not yet ready to admit it. From the outside, it’s clear that neither of them is really faking anything.

The forced proximity trope felt a little contrived—Miles taking Annie from his uncle’s house and bringing her to his place was an odd choice, but not entirely out of character. Miles struggles with his own desires and repeatedly sends Annie mixed signals, setting her up for failure without fully realizing it. Annie, being a people-pleaser, initially goes along with things. That’s why it’s such a great moment when she finally takes initiative in their relationship, surprising both Miles and the reader.


Family Drama & Side Romance

Throughout the story, Annie’s strained relationship with her grandparents and Hannah’s budding romance with Luca weave into the main plot. While I didn’t find the grandparents’ subplot particularly compelling, their presence was necessary to justify their later involvement.

On the other hand, I loved Hannah and Luca’s romance and wish we got to see more of it! Their dynamic was so different from Annie and Miles’, and getting a deeper look into their relationship would have been incredibly entertaining. I’m happy they got their happy ending, but it felt like a missed opportunity to explore something truly unique.


The Professor Arc: A Missed Opportunity?

One of the more controversial aspects of the book for me was Annie’s storyline with her predatory professor. The arc was clearly meant to serve as a catalyst for Annie’s growth—pushing her from being a passive people-pleaser to someone who stands up for herself. But for a self-proclaimed planner, Annie’s approach felt surprisingly reckless. She went into the confrontation without a clear strategy, which felt out of character for her. It seemed like the entire arc existed more to showcase Miles’ feelings for Annie than to actually serve her own development.

While Miles stepping in to help was a great moment that showed his deep care for her, I expected Annie to have a stronger emotional reaction to the situation—especially in how she processed it with Miles. It would have been a great moment for intimacy and trust-building between them. Instead, it felt somewhat underdeveloped, with the main focus shifting back to romantic tension and additional miscommunications.


Final Thoughts

The ending, with its heartfelt reconciliation and emotional “I love yous,” was undeniably cheesy—maybe even a little out of character for Miles—but still incredibly satisfying.

This book was an absolute joy to read. It had its flaws, but the emotional depth, humor, and well-developed relationships made it an unforgettable experience. If you love enemies to lovers, fake dating, and swoon-worthy book boyfriends, this one is a must-read!

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